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Humans have an amazing early warning system – intuition. Yet most people ignore it. Why? It’s because they aren’t always sure where their feelings or suspicions come from. They just feel it in their body. If there’s no concrete evidence to point to, people tend to discount what they intuitively know to be true. Yet intuition is hardwired in all of us. We should pay more attention to it, and then execute on our suspicions.
I don’t think the majority of people wake up and say, “I’m going to start an affair today!” Unless you’re a full-fledged narcissist or sociopath, where consequences don’t exist, people tend to fall into affairs rather innocently. I truly believe that.
We met at work in 2012 and I remember every single detail from that first meeting. I remember what he was wearing, how he smelled, how he spoke and how he
laughed enthusiastically at all my jokes. When the meeting ended, I turned to my colleague and said, “I would fuck that guy in a second.” It was exactly 10 days from that moment that we ended up in my bedroom. Details weren’t important; like – are you married, do you have kids, what’s your zodiac. There was just such an intense, indescribable sexual chemistry that nothing else mattered except our sexy plans to rip each other’s clothes off. And that we did. A billion times. For 9 years.
The inconvenient detail that he was married popped up early enough that I could have pulled chute. But I wasn’t the one that was married; he was. So I pushed any guilt aside and continued to explore and enjoy what I can honestly say was the best, most fulfilling relationship of my entire life. Big words; big statement; all true. Why you ask? Because of unparalleled chemistry of the brain, sports, political views, sexual fantasies, the freedom to be ourselves at all times without ever feeling an ounce of judgement. These relationships are almost impossible to find and when you do? You fight for your life to keep it.
except he was married
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